Love, life and relationships...

Three interlinked yet separately important matters. Without love our lives would be empty. Without relationships life would be impossible. The point of this blog is to help you think about your life, your love, your relationships; whether it be the relationship with your spouse, parents, children or work colleagues. As much as we are all completely different, we are also all the same. We hope this blog helps you grow in your relationships, love better and enjoy life more.

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Celebrate Women’s Month Like No One is Watching

A few days ago my mother-in-law dressed my 1 year old son. She put him in blue pants, orange socks up to his knees and a grey top. His top had a monkey on it and the socks some tigers.
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My Favorite Parenting Role Model Is The Worst Parent Ever

There is a girl I know who's beautiful. Funnier than anyone I've ever met before. Kind. Generous. Hard working. Just an all-round amazing person. When I met her, I assumed certain things about her. She's so beautiful she must be stuck
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3 Ways To Increase Self-Esteem

I read a while ago that the difference between confidence and self esteem is this: Confidence means feeling good about how you look or about something you have. It is something outward, often shallow. Self esteem means feeling good about who you
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Being more than a Father, Being a Daddy

Having a biological child does not make you a father. It merely makes you a sperm donor. If you want a phenomenal family, you should start by being a phenomenal father - a daddy. It is the act of fathering that
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Communication: The Foundation of Relationships and Sanity

Almost all relationship advice one hears or reads says that communication is very important. When you speak to couples who have been married for years and you ask them what their secret is, the bulk of them will tell you
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Who are you Having an Argument with?

Do you ever have an argument with someone while taking a shower, completely alone?
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If You Want To Sleep Better You Should Cuddle

The one thing I really missed when my son was born, was sleep. Everybody warns you that you will lose sleep when you have a baby, but until you experience it for yourself, you can never understand how much the
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Are You A Controlling Woman?

I was surprised the other day when someone I know told me the following:  “You should really get your husband to shave his beard.”  This is a woman I really look up to and admire, yet she was making a statement which
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"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails." 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 The Bible